Trying to get Jenna to pick up after
herself has been a chore. I just don’t
understand why it is such a big deal to remove clothes from one’s body and not
put them away or put them in the dirty clothes as soon as they come off. Granted, to take them off and discard them to
the floor does take less time at that given moment – but when it builds up – it
does take much longer than it would if initially put away. She’s a smart girl – but she is also very
lazy about certain things.
There are actually four or five charts I
would like to incorporate – but not
all
at the same time. That would be
overwhelming for both of us. I did have
the “Go to Bed on time” chart up, but as there are just a few weeks of school left,
and it is her whining that is really grading on my nerves right now, I have
changed the incentive chart to “I will go an entire day without whining” I hope
there will be enough incentive there.
It helps that her dad is currently
enrolled in furthering his education. He
told me that he has to be on the Net at least four times a week to get
credit. So Jenna decided that I needed to
make a chart for Roland, also. And
actually it has worked to my benefit – for Roland has already earned six
stickers. Jenna’s competitive. Her goal is to beat him. I sincerely hope it works out.
I was familiar with the idea for incentive
charts before. I had used them on the
boys when they were in junior high. I
wouldn’t think a junior high student would care so much about stickers – but for
some reason it appealed to them. And it
appealed to them to each get more than his brothers.
Ooki certainly
didn’t care about the stickers – but I had a chart for him initially so he
wouldn’t feel left out. Tony was jealous
of Ooki and jealous of the amount of stickers which Ooki had earned – not because
he was competing – it was just his nature to do things – mostly without being
told. So that gave Tony incentive to do
more than he would otherwise.
We will be continuing education during the
summer. More charts. We have to read, write, practice cursive,
practice times tables and she really ought to brush up on her Spanish (I’m
going to need help with that one) and will put checkmarks or smile faces or
something each time we have put in 20 minutes or so on whatever it is. None of her friends are early risers, so I do
not foresee it being a problem.
Hopefully by the end of summer ALL of the
incentive charts will be full. I hope so
anyway.
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