I
think my favorite talk for this past conference was this one given by Elder
Ronald A. Rasband.
He talked about a subject that I have
touched on my blog before. I was
reminded of a post I created just over a year and a half ago. I had briefly discussed Wendy Ulrich's book
"Habits of Happiness". The
particular subject was "Don't try to get
Help from your Problems" - in other words, ask God to help you make
your weaknesses become strengths - rely upon Him as the path you thought you
may have chosen isn't necessarily the right one for you.
It
is interesting that so many of us can listen to or read the same exact talk and
walk away from it with a different interpretation than another might - just as
with the parables the Savior would deliver to those who would listen and those
who were in tune (or are in tune)
with the spirit will take from it what is needed in our life at that moment.
I
know there have been many unwilling to accept that the course of the path they
travel is perhaps the best plan for them - or perhaps they are supposed to meet
or influence others that they might not if circumstances were different. Sometimes we feel that a situation might be
better if we hadn't been at "the wrong place at the wrong time" but
how do we know it was wrong. Maybe it
was a part of Heavenly Father's plan all along.
Maybe we had to overcome challenges to learn humility or some other
lesson. Maybe we need to set an example
for somebody else.
In
this post I compared Merida (from "Brave") and her desires to what
was expected, what was desired, and how the course hadn't even been close to
what had been expected - but had helped her to grow nonetheless.
Although
Elder John D. Pingree's talk (here) seemed more aimed toward missionary work,
it also reminded me of the examples that I used just trying to make it through
our everyday lives and how to incorporate these four steps into helping others
through service and talents and allowing ourselves to grow from our trials and
use that to help others also.
