Showing posts with label true love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label true love. Show all posts

Sunday, May 22, 2022

CBQ#560

Which is greater, love of ones parents, ones children, ones spouse, or ones friend?

Love comes in various sizes and definitions.  Unfortunately we do not all define love the same way when it comes to relationships.  My initial response was the parents love toward their children but I know for a fact that not all parents feel the same way about their children that they would make the ultimate sacrifice for them even if that means teaching them with tough love which is often harder on the parent than the child.

 Some people may have children but have absolutely no parenting skills or feel positive emotions toward their children.  Some people dont know how as they were never taught themselves.  That goes the same for spouses.  Some will make small sacrifices for the other such as cleaning the floor or ironing their shirts its a sacrifice when one person does it not because of obligation but out of respect and love for the other. Of course those are just examples of small sacrifices.  Rallying around a person who has changed either mentally or physically due to an injury or aging - one spouse doting on the other.  I have seen several examples of that from both spouses and parents.

So many relationships start based on physical appearance or attraction. That doesnt mean the relationship wont turn into a strong love for one another.  I love Ben Wilcox explanations of love and affection found in this video.

 There are obviously different degrees of love.  Your love for your parents or children is not going to be the same as the love you have toward your spouse.  Nor is your love for pizza going to amount to what you may feel toward a person.  Hopefully your spouse is your best friend though you will have so many others that you can call friend.  You may love them all but still different degrees of love toward each person.  Love is more than affection.  Love takes work on both sides.

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2019/
feb/11/what-is-love-and-is-it-all-in-the-mind