I am so grateful that Jaime has always had it together moreso than I. I have been so much happier living in Oregon than I was in Salt Lake. I have grown more in the last eight years than my entire lifetime in Salt Lake.
Jaime was apprehensive with starting at Coffenbury Middle School after the summer we moved here, but she loved it. I think of all her schooling she was happiest at Coffenberry. I don’t know that she would have endured that same love at Eisenhower Junior High – which is where she would have continued her education if we had stayed. She has also loved the small town life overall.
She hasn’t been exposed to many active youth – even in Salt Lake. I know there are more active youth in our current ward than there had been in our last ward. Currently she has a boyfriend. They have talked about marriage and are planning on moving out of state – which has made her apprehensive. She doesn’t wish to leave us but at the same time she needs to live her life.
She said she will be moving to a state where he will be closer to his family. She has two sisters who reside in the same state. Of course I am aware that the state is larger than Oregon and chances of running into her sisters might be slim. But there’s the possibility. I hope that they do make a connection.
I know she will get growth there living in a larger city. There are some aspects which she has missed. I hope she finds it.
I do know Jai is more comfortable with herself than I had ever been. I’m fine now, but it has taken so long. We have been so blessed with her. I’m certain her growth won’t take as long for her as it has for me.
