My brother just recently shared this post on
his facebook page:
When Mom was 13 her parents divorced. When she was 16 her
mom remarried. Both of these events were very difficult for Mom for reasons I
won't go into here.
In this entry of 1982 she says the following:
"It was also during my teens that I made some vows: 1) I would never raise my children in an apartment 2) With all my heart I would do everything to avoid a divorce 3) I would do my best to be home with my children 4) I would try not to lay guilt on my children 5) My children would be involved in family councils in which they could present their ideas."
Check, check, check, check, and check, Mom. Well done!
In this entry of 1982 she says the following:
"It was also during my teens that I made some vows: 1) I would never raise my children in an apartment 2) With all my heart I would do everything to avoid a divorce 3) I would do my best to be home with my children 4) I would try not to lay guilt on my children 5) My children would be involved in family councils in which they could present their ideas."
Check, check, check, check, and check, Mom. Well done!
I remember
mom clipping coupons from the back of the carton of Highland Milk. Even on a budget, those coupons provided us
opportunity for going to the zoo, amusement parks, and so forth. Mom and dad held strong family ties and taught
us values – though we didn’t know it at the time.
Shortly
after my brother, Corey, was born, our monthly bills seemed to outweigh dad’s
income. Apparently he and mom discussed
his taking on a second job – fearing that the long hours would become a strain
to his health (not to mention that none of us would ever see much of him) mom
decided that she would go back to work. She
decided she would find a job that would provide hours after my dad got
home.
Mom
worked at the ice cream store longer than needed. When a manager was needed, she volunteered as
she was not thrilled with the idea of other candidates being her manager. What started out as a necessity eventually
became extra income for the family. I
believe she was there until the store closed.
Mom
took on other forms of employment after daddy died. By then Patrick was married and out of the
house. Corey would come and go with education
and employment. She took on day hours
when we were each old enough to care for ourselves.
I
appreciate both dad and mom’s strength and sacrifices. My sibs and I are truly blessed.
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