On May 21st Joh and Corey
had discovered another stray in their yard and like before (see here) they took
it upon themselves to feed the neglected tom and nurse it back to health.
Corey and Joh’s
first miracle cat had shown up on the 25th –
the day they had scheduled for their new stray, Jasper to see the vet. On the 31st Corey wrote:
“With the
collar that Joh gave him, his
shaved fur, and having our home as his temporary abode, it makes me cry because
he's been given back some of the dignity a cruel world took away from him and,
of course, he's got love and caring now, too. Don't we all deserve that?”
Jasper in May |
And
on June 3 (a year after Joh’s mom had passed) Corey wrote that:
“Jasper
represents a hope for a different outcome”.
I’ve enjoyed the updates that are
posted and have so much admiration for the compassion and the willingness to
give. Yesterday I read this post and
asked Corey’s
permission to post it to my blog:
“When
I was in Sydney, Australia with [Joh], I saw a homeless man whose figure felt
so tragic, I wanted to capture it because it was such a haunting and sad image
to me. I really second-guessed whether I should do so because it felt cruel of
me to take a photo of this man's misery like some sort of exploitative tourist.
But there was something pathetic, and yet also filling me with a sense of
compassion, about the man's posture, that I wanted to safeguard the image as a
reminder to me that there are people in low places in life, and it behooves us
to stand up and take notice and help each other, if we can.
photo courtesy of Corey |
“As [Joh] and I were talking about
Jasper this evening, we remarked how it feels like he wants to be loved and
held and pet, but still is a bit guarded in doing so, as if the world has so
abused him and tossed him aside, that it is a challenge for him to trust and
learn to love again.
“Clearly,
he trusts us and is affectionate with us. He eagerly greets us and rubs against
our legs and allows us to pet, scratch, and hold him. But there is always an
underlying tension—a fear, maybe—a posture that he holds that indicates that he
is scared this feeling of comfort, love, and security won't last. I wondered
yesterday if when we took him to the vet, he thought we were getting rid of
him.
“I
do not know what traumas this little guy has faced, but I know he has, and it
is, of course, taking time for him to adjust to a life that is different than
the one he had. And as [Joh] and I talked, we discussed the parallels of foster
kids or recovering addicts or war veterans or anybody, really, who has
experienced trauma or betrayals or disappointments and is trying to heal.
“I
wish at times that we could really see into each other's hearts and intimately
know the burdens and pains that make us who we are and how we act.
I think if we could see deeply into each other's souls, we would be more compassionate,
patient, and understanding with one another.
“This
picture [four paragraphs above] reminds me that we are all of worth and that sometimes circumstances
put our fellow human beings in unfortunate places, but that if we have the
means, opportunity, and prompting to lend a hand or a kind word, we should.
“I have never shared
this photo with anyone until tonight. Not even [Joh] had seen it until this
evening. But I share it with you with the hope that when you or I see someone
who is in need, whether in large ways or small, that if we have the ability to
help, we should.”
The coat that currently covers Jasper's misshapen body |