Growing up, I enjoyed playing
games. Sometimes I would play games with
my brother. Sometimes mom and dad would
join in. They taught Patrick and I how
to play a card game they called “500”
Patrick won almost every single game
that he played. When we played 500, we
would play three games – switching partners every game. If Patrick didn’t actually win all three
games – it was because I had lost all three.
Winning wasn’t important. I was fortunate enough to learn that early on. If I felt like winning was the only reason to
play – I would never play them. I
enjoyed playing games because for the most part, it really was fun just
interacting with my family.
Whenever my family members would get
together for whatever holiday, we would always play games. And that is what I looked forward to the
most. It’s a family tradition that I’ve
had with my sibs and have tried with my own children. I remember laughing whenever
we would play games like “Awkward Family Photos” or “Pit” and just enjoy
ourselves.
The first year that I started my blog was in
2012. It hadn’t occurred to any of us
that it would be our last year with mom – our last Thanksgiving with her. My last Thanksgiving with her. I think Corey would have returned from Las
Vegas to share the holidays with her one last time. I think mom’s death has been harder on him
than any of us.
Sunny had invited the family to an early
Thanksgiving dinner – celebrating with mom and her children and their children
the Saturday before Thanksgiving Day.
Each of us had brought several games to play
– though Richard, Jenna, and I played just one before mom got antsy and overwhelmed
with the huge amount of people that were gathered together – less than 20, I
believe – and wanted to leave. We took
her to the theatre and saw “Brave” which she enjoyed.
On Thursday we had another Thanksgiving
dinner with my mom, but there were only five of us. We were just about to play a round of
“Spades” when Randy and Carrie dropped by.
We redealt so that Randy could play (Carrie just wanted to watch) so we
could play in teams. Some of us have
fond memories about the game and the smiles that it still gives us – some of us
anyway.
As I briefly explained in this post, my mom
had dementia. We had to explain the
rules of the game each time we dealt the cards.
Mom did try, but really wasn’t getting it, but that’s what made the
game fun – I thought. I love it when we
are all laughing. Winning’s not
important when you’re having fun.
Last year I remember playing board games
with Roland and our three daughters-in-law.
That was fun. Memorable. Don’t imagine they’ll be playing games this
year as two of them now hold my newborn granddaughters (that I still have not
seen in person)
This year we’ll be spending Thanksgiving in
McMinnville. I don’t know if there will
be any game playing or not. It’s not
important. We’ll be spending the
holidays with friends. It will be a
great holiday if we allow. I am looking
forward to another “non-traditional” Thanksgiving. (see here)
Christmas may be a tough holiday –
especially for Jenna who misses her cousins and her brothers. Christmas will be different for each of them,
too, as well. Changes occur. Life goes on.
I miss my family. Don’t miss the snow.
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