This morning Ally decided that she would sit in Grandpa’s chair – even though theoretically it is the best choice for him as it is close to the stove. He should have not given into her – but wanted to make peace apparently. He had already confided in me that he thought she was spoiled. I don’t know how much of that is giving in to her and how much is giving in to the Kabuki syndrome or whatever other illnesses arise.
He
asked her how many eggs she wanted. She
claimed two which he said he would do just one at a time for her. But he gave her both – none of which
she ate. She did try her sausage but
said it was spicy – which I
agree. I am not fond of that sausage. Clair usually sits next to her to monitor her
feeding but as Ally was sitting in Grandpa’s chair and Grandpa was sitting in
Clair’s, Ally and
Clair were not sitting together.
Ally claimed to have had pancakes but no
one saw her eat them and there was no evidence that she had. She appears that she overeats which is actually not the case. She dismissed herself after trying to feed
the dogs which I said were not allowed in the kitchen while we ate. Bonnie is such a loud whiner. I don’t think I have ever heard any noises
(barking included) coming out of Char.
Ally went to her room to get her
electronics. It is still my house and they
need to adjust to our rules and not the other way around. I told her no electronics at the table. She said she was going back to her room.
Grandpa insisted that she stay at the table until we have each finished. I can’t control her whining. I’d just assume she was in a different
room than being bratty at the table. But
she’s not mine to discipline.
Clair said that she would not turn on
Ally’s electronic device
until Ally was dressed at which point Ally threw a fit. If that had behavior had been Jaime – I would not be
turning on the electronic device at all.
Jaime didn’t even have a
cell phone until she was sixteen. Hadn’t wanted
one. She prefers human interaction to
electronics. Ally doesn’t know how to
interact – at least not
that I can tell.
I unloaded the dishwasher, loaded it,
cleaned out the container cubby, and cried.
The second counselor in the RS presidency offered me a place to go if I
need a few hours of solace. I may take
her up on that – but not
today. Clair and Ally are suppose to be
going out of town today. Perhaps all
three of them. Going back to Utah to keep
an appointment they made six months ago.
Clair’s been through a lot. She lost her mother right before her
birthday. She has health issues. She has more reasons to be upset with our
living conditions than I do. And yet she
always appears calm and tends to be the peace maker among the rest of us. I still cry though. I don’t want them to be here another ten
years like they were with Biff’s
former mother-in-law. Richard says three
months. Now he’s saying two
years. Two years? Really?
We can’t have them
out for summer so that Jaime has a room to return to?
