3 anniversarys: fantastic, melancholy and tragic

My brother no longer posts to his blog but has left MANY detailed posts on his facebook page. Yesterday was a tribute to mom and some to himself for the grief of her loss. He said he’d almost forgotten that it was 13 years ago yesterday. His final note (after providing a detailed account of her final stages of life) was “hearts and wounds heal with time and that life continues moving forward”. Am I a terrible person for forgetting when she died? She passed the day after Richard and I celebrated our 12 th wedding anniversary. We were married two days prior to the bombing of the twin towers in New York – a day when our nation seemed to pull together to show their support. A time when Rudy Giuliani cared about his city and seemed to be loved and respected. Having mom pass was ...