Beneath the Wraps

  I understand the need for plans – especially when others are involved – but overall I am a spontaneous gal.   I don ’ t like to plan.   Plans don ’ t always go accordingly.   If things are done spontaneously, there is less disappointment on my end. Scenarios:   planning Jaime ’ s birthday party around the unpredictable weather – or in the case of her “ sweet sixteenth ” the pandemic . . . Activities and events have to be planned out and announced ahead of time to get a good turnout – one would hope.   My jeopardy game ( here ) was cancelled three years in a row before it finally came to pass  You book your tickets in advance so that you have a guarantee.   You choose September believing it will be cooler.   Who knew there ’ d be a heatwave and fires that late in the year?   But you aren ’ t able to get a refund.   So now what?   There is no plan B.   According to Google An assertive person is more calm, ...