I don’t know what triggered this memory, but I was thinking about a time when my great uncle had told my mom and aunt that they should go get measured for fur coats. I think it was some kind of bet he had won and offered the coats to the wives of his two nephews. I don’t know what my aunt’s reaction was to her fur coat, but my mom was not comfortable about wearing what one might perceive as luxurious. She said it wasn’t even that warm. And it shed as I recall. I don’t know how long she had it or what became of it.
"you shouldn't judge a book by its cover" - what lies beneath could bear an element of surprise
Wednesday, December 13, 2023
Tuesday, December 12, 2023
No More Spontaneous Jaunts to Utah
I wish I had planned better and just taken two weeks after Thanksgiving and then returned. Three weeks may have been too long on my immune system. Ryan says I was a tremendous help. I'm grateful that he thinks that. I did not feel as productive as I was hoping for. I suppose I did do at least one productive thing each week I was there.
The day after I had arrived one of my granddaughters had expressed having missed me while she was at school.
Ryan and Chelsey's youngest was born two days after I arrived. Chelsey had already made arrangements with one of her brothers to take the kids while they were at the hospital. They did return to take the girls to the school on Monday. Because I was there the aunt was free to drive each girl without having to load up the car with everybody else (as she has three of her own).
Once they brought the baby home the kids were much more interested in their baby sister than they were in spending any quality time with grandma.
I did spend a few hours with the two sibs I have living in Utah. I spent Thanksgiving with Ryan's family and three of her brothers and their families. It was interesting.
Monday, December 11, 2023
Spontaneous Trip
I had told Ryan that I would come out to be with him if he and his wife needed my assistance. Truth is that her family rallies around one another and I suspect that they would have been fine without me but realized that it is always her family, never his. I know he appreciated my being there – even if it was just for him. For the most part I didn’t feel useful, but both of them assured me that I had been.
Though the weather was pretty awesome for this time of year and there was no inversion my throat dried up. It got cold the second week I was there, but for the most part the temperature seemed above 50. Happy to be home and nearly rid of my cold (or whatever it is) and happy that Ryan is happy.
Sunday, December 10, 2023
Sharing Germs
I have been highly allergic to most Christmas plants though the tree had never bothered me -
but there are such a huge variety of trees.
Ever since they had brought home their tree I started coughing.
It may just be coincidence and it had really been the dry air which seemed to present
a problem with my breathing.
I obviously had not considered why we had moved to Oregon in the first place.
Seattle welcomed me with the moist air that I had been missing
Still I carried those germs from Utah to Oregon.
Richard shared in my cough, hacking and disrupted breathing.
We cancelled the temple trip we had made an appointment for yesterday.
Jaime was disappointed to learn we wouldn't be coming.
We stayed home nursing ourselves.
I never even did get dressed from my bed attire.
Saturday, December 9, 2023
Baby, It's Cold Outside
I keep a sweater,
jacket, or
sweatshirt next to the
table in the back room
that way if Bonnie has
to go out during the night
I can stay warm
Friday, December 8, 2023
Looking in the Mirror
I see my husband in Ryan -
when he's talking to his children -
I remember Richard talking to his.
Thursday, December 7, 2023
Airports and Planes
I left Oregon on November 15th and went to Salt Lake to assist my son and his wife with their family. I returned on December 5th. In that time I had seen four different airports and airplanes. I went by way of Alaska Airlines which I like and have had a positive experience with in the past.
Check in was not so bad.
An agent took my printed paperwork and issued me a boarding pass. My
carry-on bag was pulled aside as I forgot to remove my kindle. It didn’t seem like a big deal.
I think that was the most comfortable of all the planes – though
the one from Salt Lake to Seattle was not bad as the plane was not full. But the plane from Seattle to Salt Lake was
quite full and so was the puddle jumper between Seattle and Medford.
For the most part the leg room reminded me of the same amount of
leg room which Jaime and I had on the bus four months ago. But the seats were wider. One could actually put the seatbelt around the
lap as the seats were designed for bigger butts than that of a middle schooler.
There was a definite difference in first class and coach on the
plane from Seattle to Salt Lake City. I
sat squashed between two gentleman.
Overhead was full and we all had carry-ons beneath our feet. I was asked to remove my fanny pack on the
puddle jumper but it didn’t seem to matter on the larger plane which I’m
certain held at least 100 people.
Jai and I had attempted to play phrazel when I was at the airport, but it was awkward. I had an hour and a half layover in Seattle both ways.
Ryan drove around the SLC airport waiting for me to come out. But it took me a while to get from the gate
to baggage claim. It must have been a
two mile walk. I didn’t notice the signs
until after my return but they advertise the long walk is to prepare visitors
to hike from 5 national parks located in Utah.
I had dragged my coat and sweater and was so hot by the time I got out
to the car.
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