Beneath the Wraps

Salt will wake up the flavor  in an otherwise dreary dish.   Only a little bit is needed.   Most recipes call for salt -  but not a huge measurement.   It almost seems  irrelevant at times.  And yet  that small amount is  very much needed.    The smallest amount  of ingredient is  needed the most.   If salt is left out,    the quality is lost.   The taste is flat.   The tongue is dulled.   Salt uplifts.   Isn't that weird?                 We depend on salt to  melt ice on roads  and sidewalks . Surely  not the same salt that  we use at the table,  but perhaps the same salt  we use to make ice cream. ...

         One of the gifts that I opened on Christmas was the Chicken Soup for the Soul "Positive Thinking"   stories full of reminders not to give up and to do whatever it takes.         As I read I think of examples from my own life:         Karyn was agoraphobic.  Her son had gone to a mission in Brazil and had developed feelings for a certain young lady.  After he had gone back to visit, he announced that he and this girl would be getting married and living in Brazil for a while.  Knowing that he needed some support from the family, he wanted his parents there, of course. Karyn and her husband had enough money for only one plane ticket. And because of her fears of dealing with crowds, it was decided that her husband would go.         His job seemed to complicate the situation as far as the date was concerned.  It...

I hope everyone has the opportunity of watching this video Whether it's true or not, I don't know.  But I think it's an awesome idea either way. How wonderful it would be if those in the video are caught. How great it is for those who were robbed to use the crime to their advantage and use footage to advertise their tacos.  They really do look delicious.  Will have to try when I get back that way again.

            I grew up with the idea that families got together on New Years to play games.  It would often start on New Year's Eve at somebody's house.  We'd play games and have cheese and crackers and chips and soda.  That was always the greatest part about the new year.            Mom always took the tree down on New Year's Day.  It was sad. But I have carried out that tradition of taking the tree down on New Years.  What else would I do?             Although there was one year when Jenna insisted we put the tree up right after Thanksgiving.  I took it down on the 26th because it had been up entirely too long.  I think because it was taking up space in our cracker box house and everything always felt so clumped together with no elbow room even when it wasn't Christmas.     ...

            We weren't able to get back to Utah for a lack of funds.  Airfare is way overpriced (even at a senior discount) and Roland didn't have the same amount of time to take off work as Jenna currently has for school.             It snowed in several parts of Salt Lake.  My sister and one of my sons both reported that there had been an endless snowfall and probably three feet of snow - though one had reported that the streets had been clear.  How awesome that there are those who give up pieces of their Christmas to make things safer for others.             We woke up to find snow on the ground the morning of Christmas Eve.  The sun shone itself out.  It was really a beautiful day.  Not too hot.  Not too cold.  The air was an invite and in turn invited us to go...

              It is important to remember that not everyone is looking forward to Christmas. Some people are not surrounded by large wonderful families. Some of us have problems during the holidays and are overcome with great sadness when we remember the loved ones who are not with us. For many it is their first Christmas without a particular loved one and many others lost loved ones at Christmas. And, many people have no one to spend these times with and are shadowed by loneliness.          My uncle's family will have their first Christmas without him.  He was buried just before we moved to Oregon.  It is harder still for families who lose their loved ones during the holiday season - to always have that memory around the holidays. We have seen present neighbors and some that we left in Utah just recently pass away.  We have seen hardships and we have seen those who choose to move on and celebrate the h...

              I remember being in the congregation during a sacrament meeting in which a newly returned missionary was giving his homecoming talk . As he shared various experiences, he would explain why he felt the need to share.  I remember him saying that all missionaries have at least one dog story.          “We do?” I had thought.           I must admit that I had missed his dog story as I had been thinking of my own.    One that actually brings a smile to my face each time I think about it.          I was serving in an area where each door had been knocked on (weekly if not daily) by one religion or another.    It came to the point that people just didn’t want to open their doors as they felt they were being bullied by religious freaks.    We had actually been told...

Whenever my phone rings Or signals that I have received a text message Jenna jumps Like Pavlov’s dog Usually I don’t mind I am not a slave to the phone Though she seems to be She’s always excited when she learns That it is one of her brothers Today she answered the phone with excitement “Randy!” she yelled. It isn’t any wonder that none of her brothers have gone deaf First thing he asks her if it is snowing He says that the Utah snow seems harsh today. I remember waiting for the bus in killer snow The snow seen in this part of Oregon is rare Or so we’ve been told We saw it fall for two days But it was never like Utah Buses were delayed for two hours But Jenna did return to school After the snow We had our power back on But some people did not. Those who live in Tiller Were without power for six days To a week. Mostly it rains.   The creeks and rivers rise The grass turns green and The earth is drenched w...

            We were told that a light parade is done each year.  It takes place on the second Saturday of December.  The vehicles start the drive in Riddle and move through Tri-City and through Highway 99 over to the street just behind the one we're on.  The parade then turns down the only street that connects Riverside to Division,  Division to one of the numbered avenues and then on to Main Street.              The parade is a big deal, and downtown offers free hot drinks and chili.  There are fireworks at the park stadium.  This has been a tradition for 22 years now from what I understand. I was surprised they were able to do the fireworks with all the rain.  We heard  that it's unusual to have that much rain to fall throughout the day and hasn't happened often.        ...

          Christmas does not have to be about spending money or exchanging gifts - though I love the gift giving thing.  There are some years that we have really had to stretch. We have been recipients of "Sub for Santa" many times. Overall, I think those are the most memorable.  And I have really been touched by all of those who have made an effort to our cause.           We moved to West Valley at the end of 2009.  It was hard to leave our Kearns ward family - but at the same time, we felt that the move was the right thing for us. Less than a week before Christmas, I received a call from the Relief Society President of the ward we had left.  She said that she had gifts f or us f rom the ward.  She came in the second snowstorm of that season.  She brought two other sisters with her.  Their gifts more than doubled the amount of gifts that we already had.  ...

     I have two brothers and one sister.   We would buy or make gifts for each other to exchange at Christmas.   For a while we had gifts for each aunt, uncle, cousin . . . I don’t think we started drawing names among dad’s sibs and their families until the first Christmas I was out on my mission.      Patrick married Sunny who had four sibs and grew up having exchanged gifts with just one sibling, as they would draw names each year.   I think we still purchased gifts for each of our sibs and all of Sunny and Patrick’s families until after Kayla got married.   And then we decided to draw names – family to family.   That worked out for a few years.      One time it seemed all of us were struggling financially and decided not to exchange gifts that year.   It was one of the best Christmas gifts we had ever given ourselves.      Last year we ...