CBQ#260

 Would you prefer to plan your vacation or be spontaneous?

I enjoy spontaneity overall.  

Of course it is helpful to have 

a destination and find things to 

do along the way

Not having reservations has proved 

more difficult than planning ahead. (see here)  

But planning has disadvantages as well.

I suppose if you are familiar with the drive and area 

making reservations may work to your 

advantage or having the hotel as 

the destination and not 

a stop on the way.  

You don't know when during the drive 

you will be tired.  

If you're not familiar with the drive 

you may accidently book yourself in 

a seedy or industrial area.  

You may misread the map and 

book yourselves 40 or 80 miles (or more) 

out of your way.  

You may be rerouted due 

to elements or traffic.  

I prefer spontaneity.  

We Should Travel - at least when it's safe enough to do so.

         My youngest son seems to be making more money than he knows what to do with.  Boo hoo, huh?  His wife's family has paid for a few outings for the entire family - like going to Mexico.  Recently he just purchased tickets to go to Hawaii.  Roland and I never traveled.  We barely had enough to feed the family.  

        There was one time we had gone to Logan to see my brother's performance in something.  I can't even remember what.  Each of the boys had made arrangements to sleep over with various friends and had not shown any interest in going to the play.  Since none of the boys were at home and Roland felt too tired to drive back, we just got a room to spend the night.

        Our youngest (the first to have made sleeping arrangements) calls about midnight to find out where we are.  Apparently the sleeping over plans had fallen through and he was alone in the house and had fallen asleep in our bed waiting for us.  I related this to Roland just a few minutes ago - though he says he doesn't remember.  I doubt Randy remembers either.  But it really did happen.

        There was a time when I thought I would enjoy traveling.  I suppose road trips are okay with the right companion(s) and car.  But I do not want to fly again - especially while there is still the pandemic.  Nor do I wish to gamble on staying at motels or hotels that may or may not be taking precautions for their guests. Too big of a gamble right now.

        I'm okay exploring places virtually - or reading about them.  Less costly and not so physically demanding.  Perhaps one day.  Perhaps not.  And it's okay either way.

No Vacancy

 

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2016-11-11/-no-
vacancy-signs-are-vanishing-from-america-s-highways

            I may not remember every detail of every family vacation I took with my parents and sibs, but I do remember looking at hotel signs from the freeway and taking the ramp to find lodging.  We had not made reservations as there was a time it didn’t seem pertinent to do so.  We would look for signs that said “Vacancy” and preferred lodging with a pool and later cable seemed to be a priority.  I don’t recall having had any problems with finding lodging that way. 

I suppose it is still possible to do it that way in some areas but have learned that as the decades pass and more apps and technology are introduced – a reservation will at least secure where you may want to go.  I still would rather throw caution to the wind and find something along the way instead of booking in an area I’m really not familiar with and end up at an out-of-the-way inn than to drive to what is nearest to what brought us to said area.

I think it was in 1995 when my Grandma Mary was visiting from San Franciso.  Mom had decided that we should go explore southern Utah.  We had talked about driving to Moab but ended up driving to the Grand Canyon.  My sister Kayla and I explored the north rim while my mom waited at a visitor’s center with my grandma – who was then walking with a cane.

Of course there were no reservations as our destination had become a spontaneous drive.  Mom knew that she would not be able to drive the entire way home but we would need some kind of lodging for grandma.  The first available lodging we had passed was called Jacob’s Lodge (I think) but offered no vacancy at the time we were there.  I don’t know how we ended up in Fridonia but found a bed and breakfast that was really nice.  I have never been to Fridonia before or since.

There was another trip we took that had taken us through Panguitch.  It must have been a holiday weekend or something.  For by the time we got there (and I’m not even certain why we were there but I remember mom and Kayla – I don’t know if Grandma Mary was with us or if it was the same year/trip or not) and drove through the town seeing signs “No Vacancy” “No Vacancy” “No Vacancy” – finally we hit the last motel on the way out of town.  We were told we got the last available room.

I don’t know what time of year it was, but the night air was freezing.  As I recall the pool was closed but the whirlpool was open.  Kayla and I made the trek to the Jacuzzi – I think our room was located the furthest away from the pool area.  It felt nice to be inside, but the air, of course, seemed cooler on the return to our room.  We were there for just that one night.

I had hoped that I would be able to take my family on vacation each year as my dad had done with me and my sibs but it didn’t come to pass.  I recall taking only two vacations with the boys.  We had reservations.  We did not have reservations when we drove back to Utah for Jeanie’s funeral  as we have not even taken the same route each time we go. That year we had stopped off at Tremonton on the way and Bend on the return.  Vacancy was not a problem.  Finding an open anything on Christmas Day in Winnamucca (here) was a problem. The motel that was open did have vacancies.  I think probably many.  I don’t know how many rooms were occupied.  At least one.  Perhaps another.

Tony’s latest phone call had triggered these memories as he mentioned that his family will be going to Yellowstone in May.  I’d love for Roland and Jenna to see Yellowstone.  Roland joked that we could drive to Yellowstone right now.  We live over14 hours away. I don’t think Yellowstone is something we should try spontaneously – especially during a pandemic. 

Richard and I are now fully vaccinated and Jenna is currently halfway there.  When we had gone to New York last June we did not have to worry about lodging as we were staying with Randy – but the idea of looking for open lodging or staying overnight still does appeal to me during these times.  I think if we’re going to be spontaneous about driving somewhere it needs to be less than four hours away.  I doubt we will be going to Yellowstone anytime soon. 

Randy wants us to come stay with him in St. George.  He says the church has several historical sites that we can visit.  True, there are historical sites, but currently giving virtual tours only.  Driving to St. George will be longer than driving to Yellowstone.  Not this year, folks.  Meanwhile Jenna is going stir crazy with desires to get away.  We’ll have opportunity again. Unfortunately, it won't be soon.