There are some who age gracefully – some whose minds and bodies appear to be so much younger that many are surprised to learn that they are actually older than they appear. And then there are those who seemed robbed of their minds and or bodies long before their prime and often give the illusion that they are much older. And then there are those who don’t appear to be that old but their minds seem younger than their bodies – much younger. How did Corey put it? Elderly children.
Leon Goodman described Alzheimer’s in this way: Her life is being chomped away from present to past by a voracious PacMan which cannot be stopped. My mom does not have Alzheimer’s, but I think the comparison here is just as accurate. Only it’s not so much from present to past as it is just a very different time frame. A time frame real to her but in an imaginary zone from the average view.
As we age there are many among us who lose strength that perhaps many of us have taken for granted. For example, having the ability to stand up and move from the bed to the toilet without losing our balance or the cold that seems to last longer with each passing year because somewhere along the line our bodies have slowed down and don’t seem to have the same ability for fighting off infection.
I’m only 50. I think I will die young. Sometimes it feels that way. Some days when my head is clouded and I’m burdened with physical pain, I would just assume die. When my body and spirit separate, I won’t have to experience the physical pain anymore. But I'm told I’ll be taking my emotions with me. Hope that umberellas are provided.
On January 31st I wrote this post about my desire to ease into another routine – or attempting to rather. I posted entirely too soon. I have not made a routine for myself. I have not put in any volunteer hours at either the cannery or the school. I haven’t been to the temple. Nor have I been out to see my mom.
I’ve been nursing my cold and now Jenna. She would rather be in school. So would I. I’d like to be able to sleep through the night again. I would love to feel good again. I would love for all of my household and other family and friends to all feel better and stay better. I would love to get back on schedule – like I was when Jenna was in first grade.
Actually, we are both feeling better. But I am still in a fog. Returned to the doctors for an ear flushing. And there was a lot that came out. But not all of it. My hearing is exactly where it was two weeks ago. I am so sick of being sick!