Jenna is loud! Even when she is quiet for her, she is still loud by definition. I think that's one reason Biff is gone.
My eldest son, Biff, has a girlfriend in another county. He says 45 minutes away. I haven’t driven it. But it is where he current girlfriend lives. He drives there on Saturday afternoon and doesn’t return home until late Monday night – I would guess at the same time that Jeanie leaves for work . . .
He works on Saturday nights which means he is commuting from Syracuse to Sandy – that’s quite a commute. And expensive. Good thing Biff is using his own gas and not mine and Roland’s. Not that he’d have our permission. If you’re an avid follower you may recall from this post that Biff is supposed to be out of the house.
Before he started driving his car again (which I still don’t know whether it’s registered or not) I had a dream that Biff brought Jeanie and her parents came with him – not to drop him off, but to help him move. Biff introduced Jeanie as his wife and her parents – our new in-laws. Now, my sister-in-law Sunny would be mortified if one of her children came home and announced he or she was already married. Sunny would be hurt and heart –broken that she hadn’t been a part of her child’s marriage.
In my dream I showed no remorse, but total happiness. I hugged Jeanie and her parents and welcomed them to the family – each was somewhat taken aback. Biff went with his new father-in-law to rent a U-Haul and I helped Jeanie and her mom pack Biff’s belongings.
Our visit was pleasant – as I recall – though I don’t know the exact conversation. I did tell them about how Roland and I had met and that we were engaged for nine months before we were married and how we had a “reception” a month later.
I woke up before Biff and his father-in-law returned.
Roland doesn’t think it is a good idea to start marriage under the same roof as parents – but that is how Sunny and my brother Patrick started out. Living in the basement of her parents. Her father helped push Patrick into liking Sunny as much as she liked him. That is my understanding anyway. Her father had invited Patrick to go with their family to California for their Disneyland vacation. I believe that is where Patrick developed a love for Sunny.
Sunny would have never eloped. I had thought about it. My mom made me promise that I wouldn’t. But if we hadn’t already been married when terrorists crashed the planes into the Twin Towers at New York on September 11, 2001, I would have broken that promise. I would have had Roland drive me to Las Vegas just after I got off work. I thought the world was coming to an end. I wanted to be legally married before the end happened. But we were actually married two days before.
The world didn’t end in the same sense that I had in mind. But many of the comforts of the world I had once known were lost. The economy started its downfall and regardless of oral reports that the economy has gotten better – not everyone sees that it has. So many still struggle from day to day. Struggle to put food on the table, to pay bills, to survive. The world didn’t end but I think a lot of respect for it did.