I
understand the desire for those who wish to segregate Mothers’ Day
Jenna
asks, “What would you like for Mothers’ Day?”
“I would
like you to clean your room?”
“No,
really. What do you want?”
“That is
what I want. To have my daughter show me
some responsibility.”
“Mooooommmm.”
Are you
honoring my motherhood? What are we
celebrating exactly? Taking a break from
the dishes and finding them in the sink on Monday is NOT taking a break. I don’t even think half the chores I do is
what makes up a mother.
I am
certainly not a housewife. I did not tie
the knot with any building – especially this one. I’ve looked into home improvement. But the expenses all add up and I need to
budget for just one thing at a time – not empty out my bank account and then some.
They got
me chocolates. I know because Jenna told
me. She and her friend were wrapping the
boxes and came to me to ask my permission if they could have one.
“Enjoy
your gift. The chocolates were
delicious. Here is a box you might like
to use for stationary.”
Jenna
really wants to surprise me – really wants me to enjoy this “holiday”. She practiced throwing confetti at me this
morning. Granted, it was a cute idea on
her part. Very colorful. Also very messy. And guess who gets to clean it up? Mother.
When my
own mom would get me gifts for Christmas or my birthday or whatever, she would
ask, “What would you like?”
Sometimes
I was specific. More often than not I
would say, “to be surprised” I rarely was.
Mothers’
Day started out as a holiday to honor a specific mother and then it grew. I think at one point in history maybe it
really was a special holiday and did honor mothers – maybe not all
mothers. There’s always those who feel
left out – who don’t feel honored though the system tries.
“You’re
not a mother. Perhaps you never will
be. But here’s a rose to say we
care. Here’s a plaque to always remind
you of the commercialism involved. But then I guess that’s with any
holiday. Commercial desecration.
I mean
some places have a ligament claim – such as Hallmark. But I personally don’t know any “mothers” who
find anything appealing about Henry’s smoke shop.
I find
amusement in sitcoms such as the Middle or Everybody Loves Raymond when the
Mothers’ Day outcome really isn’t that great at honoring mother yet capture the
role of a mother. Most sitcoms show the hoopla ends up creating more work. And dad as well as kids seem oblivious to the
true emotions of the mother who just assume NOT be honored if it’s just going
to create more work.
So Happy
Mothers’ Day to those of you who truly feel honored and glorified on your
special day. To the rest of us: Happy
Human Day. At least we’ve got that in
common.
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