We didn’t do our annual Christmas dinner last year (the one with mom and her children) – at least not with the same dishes we usually prepare. We gathered at my one brother’s house and had soup and bread. It was simple. We played games and exchanged gifts.
This year we didn’t even do a dinner. Each sib went his separate way. We weren’t together for Christmas Eve or Christmas – not all four of us.
Corey had gone back to Las Vegas to be with his sweetheart and to register as a permanent residence of Las Vegas.
Sunny and her youngest had run by mom’s house to drop off some gifts. They were just in and out.
Kayla and Bill had planned to visit with both families on Christmas Eve – but as we weren’t getting together as siblings, they chose to stop by mom’s on the way to spending Christmas Eve with his family. And Roland, Jenna, Biff and I stayed with mom for four hours after everyone else had left. Well, almost everyone.
As it turned out, Nate and Ellen never left my mom’s house as Ellen had been sick all morning. Both Kayla and I guessed pregnancy. Neither Nate nor my mom would believe it was even a possibility.
We didn’t draw names this year. It was a gift to ourselves to not have to worry about spending money we don’t have or creating gifts that might not work . . .
Randy and Carrie stopped by yesterday morning to exchange gifts. We watched a movie. Randy and Carrie then took Biff with them to Christmas brunch with her family.
Roland and I returned to mom’s on Christmas day. She had had breakfast with Patrick’s family, but Ellen had brought her back. We met Bill and Kayla there and exchanged gifts among the kids. Mom also opened her present from Corey and Joh – and the unwrapping of gifts came to a halt until the frame and pictures they had given her were hung.
We all played games for about six hours and went home. Had to explain to mom what needed to be done each round – but she played all of the games we did. Jenna played most of them – and we talked her into watching “A Christmas Story” for the first time.
I understand that Tony had a less than perfect Christmas. He spent it at the park dog-sitting while his wife and daughter stayed in their apartment. Haven’t received all the details.
It wasn’t a terrible Christmas. It was different. Feeling kind of empty. Though I KNOW I am not alone in thinking that. Many missing family members for many this Christmas.
We’ve never spent the holidays with Roland’s family. We had planned to one year, but plans changed. I think that would be more different than missing traditions with my family this year.
Mom thanked me several times for coming. That alone was worth it.